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A few weeks back some friends came over for dinner. Afterwards we decided to play a game instead of watching a movie. After all, we invited them over to spend time with them, not to stare quietly at the television for two hours together. We weren't in the mood for cards or a board game so we improvised and played "The Question Game." The very simple object of the game is to get to know one another better.
The first two rounds we each took turns telling the others one thing that we liked. Caviar, honest people, hot baths, ice cream sundaes, helping others succeed, swimming with dolphins and yellow tulips were some of the comments that were vocalized.
On the third round we each shared with the others one thing we did not like. We opened up to not liking people who make fun of others or who are intolerant of other cultures or beliefs. One person didn't like beans and another found seafood to be repulsive.
While eating dessert and drinking champagne we repeated the cycle until we got bored of playing. The best part was that everyone won. We learned more about each other and became closer friends because of it. This game is also an excellent non-threatening way to discuss things you don't like that your spouse does. For example you can tell the group that you don't like seeing people talk with food in their mouth or use profanity without pointing the finger. Better yet, it is a way to drop hints about what kind of gifts you would like to receive and how you would spend your ideal romantic day.
Instead of renting that next movie, play a game where everyone wins!
Michael Webb is the best-selling author of The RoMANtic's Guide: Hundreds of Creative Tips for a Lifetime of Love. You can order at Amazon.com or for more of Michael's FREE tips, visit www.TheRomantic.com
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